I was reading a New York Times article that listed all the artists that have NOT spoken up about Frank Ocean. My question is, do they have to? Do we assume that all artists are friends with each other? And if they are really friends with Frank Ocean, maybe they always knew? Dream Hampton wrote a “thank you” letter and posted it on Jay-Z’s website. In speaking with some people it occurred to me that many people did not know that Jay-Z has a website www.lifeandtimes.com It’s place for him to post whatever he feels like so he used his platform to post Dream Hampton’s letter to Frank Ocean:-

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Thank you, Frank Ocean

It’s true, we are a lot alike spinning on blackness. All wanting to be seen, touched, heard, paid attention to. In your opening few lines, you simultaneously established your humanity, a burden far too often asked of same sex lovers, and acknowledged that in this age of hyper self-awareness, amplified in no small part by the social media medium in which you made your announcement, we are desperate to share. You shared one of the most intimate things that ever happened to you – falling in love with someone who wasn’t brave enough to love you back. Your relieving yourself of your secret is as much about wanting to honestly connect as it is about exhibition. We are all made better by your decision to share publicly.

You and Anderson Cooper have the same coming out calendar week in common, but in many obvious ways, you couldn’t be more different. Anderson Cooper is an heir to one ofAmerica’s great Industrial Age fortunes and a network professional whose maleness and whiteness backed by his considerable accomplishments guarantee him work. You are a young Black man fromNew Orleanswho fled your still struggling city. You didn’t arrive inLos Angeleswith generational wealth and privilege, only the beautiful lyrics and melodies that danced through you and your dream of making it in a music industry whose sand castles were crumbling.

You are in fact, connected to one of hip-hop’s great cadres, in the tradition ofOakland’s Heiroglyphics, The Native Tongues and The Juice Crew. Your music family, like all the rest, will likely grow apart, but in this moment Odd Future bends hip-hop’s imagination with utter abandon. You fulfill hip-hop’s early promise to not give a f-ck about what others think of you. The 200 times Tyler says “faggot” and the wonderful way he held you up and down on Twitter today, Syd the Kid’s sexy stud profile and her confusing, misogynistic videos speak to the many contradictions and posturing your generation inherited from the hip-hop generation before you. I’m sure you know a rumor about Big Daddy Kane having AIDS and with it, the suggestion that he was bisexual, effectively ended his career. You must have seen the pictures of pioneer Afrika Baby Bam from the Jungle Brothers in drag and read the blogs ridiculing him, despite the fact that he’s been leading a civilian life for nearly two decades. I know as a singer, you love Rahsaan Patterson and bemoan the fact that homophobia prevented him from being the huge star his talent deserves. Only last month Queen Latifah unnecessarily released a statement denying that her performing at a Gay Pride event meant she was finally affirming her identity for thousands of Black girls. Imagine if Luther had been able to write, as you closed your letter, “I dont have any secrets I need kept anymore. I feel like a free man.”

But you’re not an activist.

You’re a Black man inAmericawhose star is on the rise, working in hip-hop and soul, where gender constructs are cartoonishly fixed. Your colleague Drake is often attacked with homophobic slurs when he simply displays vulnerability in his music. He seems to respond by following those moments of real emotion with bars that put hoes in their proverbial place. But you’re a beautiful songwriter (your question to Jay and Kanye, “What’s a King to a God?” on their own song on an album about their kingdom, was brilliantly sly). Your letter is revolutionary not least of all because it is about love. It is about falling in love and feeling rejected and carrying both that love and rejection with you through life. The male pronoun of the object of your desire is practically incidental. We have all been in a love that felt malignant, hopeless, from which there was no escaping, no negotiating. Your promise to your first love, that you wont forget him, that youll remember how you changed each other, is so full of love and grace.

You were born in the ’80s, when gay rights activists were seizing the streets ofNew Yorkand other major world cities, fighting for visibility and against a disease that threatened to disappear them. The cultural shifts created from those struggles in some ways make your revelation about your fluid sexuality less shocking than it would have been decades before. Still, there are real risks with coming out as a man who loved a man. I hope you hear and are reading the hundreds of thousands of people who have your back.

We admire the great courage and beauty and fearlessness in your coming out, not only as a bisexual Black man, but as a broken hearted one. The tender irony that your letter is to a boy who was unable to return your love love until years later because he was living a lie is the only truly tragic thing about your letter.

A million twirls on this spinning ocean blue globe in this vast endless blackness for you my love

Beyonce showed her support in her unique way as well…..

So there you have it, The King and Queen of Hip Hop and R&B have spoken…does it matter what anyone else has to say?

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